My brother has always wanted to be a saxophone player Manchester, and I have always tried to get him to dream of being something more realistic. I don’t know how many jobs there are out there for someone who chooses that kind of a career. Couldn’t my brother just be a lawyer or a doctor or something? My brother insists that playing music is all that he wants to do and he tells me that I can’t stop him from doing what he wants to do. I have decided that I have to let him live his life. It’s his life to live and he gets to decide what he wants to do with it. Letting go is hard, but it is the right thing to do. I have determined to let my brother be, to let him choose his own future and make his own decisions.